Fancy a cup of tea babe?

When it comes to sex toys and fantasy dress up, we often take the step of buying them and indeed using them.  The delivery arrives and you burst open the box to find your brand new sexy bunny outfit as well as perhaps a new sex toy for him.

Men being men, of course, he wants to see you wearing it straight away.  So this leaves you with two choices, put it on there and then or promise him you will at bed time.

Either way the element of surprise and sexual anticipation is gone.  There is another way.  The secret is not to let him know you are buying something such as a sexy outfit or sex toy.  Make sure it arrives without him finding out and then you can hit him with it when he least expects it.

Wait till he is relaxed after work and will be receptive to you then simply make the offer of a cup of tea.  He will no doubt say yes, giving you the chance to slip upstairs, slip into your new sexy outfit and then bring him in the tea wearing it.

Just watch his face as he suddenly realises what you have done.

When did you last dress for the occasion?

Hen nights, super hero stag do's or just plain old fancy dress, when did you last 'dress up'?  Can you even remember where it was, or what it was for?  Everyone loves to dress up, especially when it comes to fun nights out with friends.  Charlie's Angels, St Trininens, and Play Bunnies are a common sight in any city on most weekends.  Sometimes, just sometimes, there will be something a little different.  Perhaps a group of giggling woman dressed in sexy nurse outfits or as naughty nuns.

A more interesting question would be, 'when did you last dress up for your partner?'.  What's your favourite sexy outfit?  Dressing up can be a extremely effective way to bring back the spice in your sex life.  If we have been with our partners for some time, it's only natural that things may go 'off the boil'.  It is important that the physical side of our relationship saves strong.  It feeds the emotional needs and keeps our feelings fresh and alive.  Simply slipping on a little naughty outfit, especially if they have no idea that you are going to do it, can have huge positive effects in the bedroom.

For some, it's down to a confidence thing.  If we're not overly happy with our bodies, it may be an uncomfortable thought to imagine yourself in a skimpy, sexy secretary outfit is a little worrying.  You shouldn't feel inhibited.  Let yourself go and you'll be surprised at the reaction from your partner and more importantly, how good it makes you feel as well.

You can see a full range of sexy dress up outfits at Jolly Rabbit.

Tonight, I'm going to be....x

Stockings and suspenders, sexy nurses and cheerleaders outfits, are just a few of the very simple things that can have huge positive impacts on your sex life.  They aren't exactly sex toys, but they do fall within the boundaries of adult products due to their very nature.  Not only does it leave you feeling super sexy and more confident, it adds a little spice to your relationship as well.  Men love to see their partner in sexy dress up.  If it isn't something you have done or are doing, then step to it and make the change!

The look on your partners face when you emerge from the bathroom in a fantasy dress up outfit, will be priceless, making you feel more satisfied and more desirable. But remember, this kind of sextoys dress up doesn't need to be limited to naughty nights in.  Dressing up is ideal for events such as hen nights, birthdays and spontaneous sexy nights out.  Woman can have their fun as well, mens fantasy dress is on the up.  Firemen, naval officers, policemen and doctors outfits are among the more mainstream choices.  There are endless role plays to act out with your partner, and it is important that you do.

Couples that play together stay together, it's a well coined phrase but one that is grue!